I resolved to stop using words associated with mental health (“crazy,” “mental,” “insane”) in my everyday conversations in 2020.
I realized when I meant to say something was “bad,” I often used words associated with mental health issues. I wanted to do my small part to change my tone.
It was, and is still, so hard to stop using stock phrases that denigrate mental health. I usually only realize what I’ve said after I’ve uttered phrases like “that’s so crazy!” or “it was insane.” Each time I catch myself, I wonder how this language became so ingrained and why I never questioned it, to begin with.
Nearly nine out of ten people with mental health problems say that stigma and discrimination have a negative effect on their lives.
Fighting mental health stigma
Our society places a stigma on mental health, which “can significantly affect feelings of shame and lead to poorer treatment outcomes.” I believe words matter. When I approach a negative situation by framing it with words to describe someone’s state of mind, I build negative associations to mental health. And that blocks any type of transparency or conversation around mental health, especially in the workplace where people are more guarded. As a people leader, I feel a responsibility to guide my team away from using unnecessary and hurtful language in our content.
Words matter when it comes to discussing mental illness. Words matter because when, culturally, we misuse words that are meant to describe specific disorders we literally keep people from seeking treatment.
— Elle Maruska (they/them) (@ellle_em) January 9, 2020
Let me explain
In the past decade, progress has been made in normalizing mental health. More and more people understand that mental health is part of everyone’s life. If you’d like to be more mindful about the phrases you use in everyday conversation, try these alternatives. You may be surprised at how often you use stigmatizing language in your daily life.
So say what you mean:
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Don’t use |
Do use |
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To express disbelief |
That’s crazy! |
That’s unbelievable! |
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To express dislike for someone: |
That person is insane |
I don’t like that person |
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To explain if something was unexpected or out of control |
The party was nuts |
The party was rowdy |
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To describe something that is hard to understand or unusual |
This is mental |
This is unexpected |
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To describe someone who is emotional |
That person is losing it |
That person is emotional |
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To describe someone or something horrifying |
That person is a psycho |
That person did a horrible thing |
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To ask someone to share their feelings or to do something |
Go nuts |
Share your thoughts / Go for it |
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To say you’re organized |
I’m OCD |
I’m very organized |
